Breaking the monotony in marriage: Top 5 fantasies of married people in India

Every love relationship calls for intimacy, and partners strive to keep their union passionate and exciting. Over time, it’s common to establish a routine in the bedroom, which can make it dull and drab. Married people can make things fun by exploring different ways, trying new things and adding spice to the routine.

Sharing her thoughts on this, Sybil Shidel, Country Manager, Gleeden India says, “Breaking the monotony in the bedroom can be a fun and exciting way to discover your sexuality and deepen your connection with your partner. However, it is essential to set boundaries and prioritize the well-being of everyone involved. It’s up to each couple to decide what works best for them, whether that’s exploring alternative sexual experiences or using new sex toys to amp up some of the excitement. Communication and mutual respect are the keys to any successful relationship.

To understand how married people are breaking out of routine and ready to explore new facets of partnership, here is a look at the top five fantasies of married people in India:

wild side quest

The fact that arranged marriages are popular in India and prevent people from having a sexual identity before marriage is the reason why people desire to have sex with someone other than their current spouse. In Gleeden’s survey, 19 percent of male respondents and 18 percent of female respondents said they had fantasies of having multiple partners to improve their sex life. Surprisingly, among tier-2 city residents who fantasize about having more than one sexual partner, Guwahati polled 26 per cent, Ludhiana 19 per cent and Jaipur 18 per cent. In terms of fantasizing about multiple relationships, respondents from tier-1 cities are not far behind, including Kolkata at 21 per cent, Delhi at 19 per cent, Mumbai at 24 per cent and Bengaluru at 16 per cent.

a night of passion

The excitement and spontaneity of a one-night stand is what makes it fun. It is a way of enjoying a fleeting moment of desire while breaking the routine of a long-term marriage. The survey reveals that 23 percent of men and 20 percent of women would like to have a one-night stand with someone other than their current partner. It further states that 31 per cent people from Kolkata, 24 per cent from Delhi, 26 per cent from Mumbai and 22 per cent from Bengaluru are ready for this. Interestingly, Tier 2 cities win the race, with 33 per cent respondents from Guwahati, 22 per cent from Patna and 20 per cent from Ahmedabad going for it.

the art of flirting

Flirting is often looked down upon in Indian culture. However, many married people in India think about flirting with someone other than their spouse. Flirting is a strategy for making yourself feel desired and attractive, and it can greatly boost your confidence. The survey states that 26 percent of men and 22 percent of women imagine themselves flirting in real life but not with their current partner.

one click away

In India, married people often dream of virtual flirting as it enables them to explore their fantasies without having to step out of their marriage. According to the survey, 31 per cent of men and 24 per cent of women fantasize about flirting with someone virtually, but not with their partner.

fantasy or reality

The last fantasy on our list is fantasizing about a famous person having sex with your current partner. In India, both men and women share this common desire. It allows one to engage in some fantasy and investigate their sexual urges. The survey confirms that 26 percent of men and 22 percent of women fantasize about having sex with someone other than their current partner.