Modern Love: Are Indian Singles Embracing Age-Gap Relationships? Here’s What the Study Shows

Age difference has long been a dating taboo that often divides people’s perceptions. While many of us have difficulty dealing with our age, this problem often applies to dating situations as well. What is an appropriate age gap? How young is too young, or how old is too old? Is it only for the super rich, famous and trendy?

According to a recent study by Bumble, Indian singles are embracing love as it manifests itself in multiple ways and with the change in social conventions dating is becoming more free and like minded.

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How people approach the ‘norm’ of age in relationships is changing. A new study by Bumble indicates that 81 per cent of Indians surveyed say that age is just a number and does not determine the success of a relationship.

We are also looking at old, outdated beliefs about gender and power dynamics in relationships, as 84 per cent of Indians surveyed believe that age gap relationships are more acceptable now than before Are. In fact:

It’s not just in movies: 76 per cent of Indians surveyed say age gap relationships are no longer an ideal concept (in movies, celebrity relationships)

Time matters less: 74% of Indians surveyed say the age gap narrows as the partner grows older

In India, as one ages, the pressure of dating remains and can be restrictive as almost 2 out of 5 (39 per cent) women surveyed admitted that as you get older as a woman then dating becomes more difficult. This is true for more Millennial women (44 percent) than Generation Z (35 percent). Furthermore, 33 per cent of Indians surveyed say that fear of judgment from family and friends makes it difficult for them to be open-minded about age-gap relationships.

Samarpita Samaddar, India Communications Director, Bumble shared, “Our ideas and opinions about age gap relationships are rooted in patriarchal, archaic, traditional societal norms. Unfortunately, couples with large age gaps, especially when The difference men face when it comes to dating older women. With judgement. There is a tendency to think about potential power imbalances rather than assuming that people are happily together, and the relationship is often len- We see it as a gift. It is so important that we understand that a healthy relationship builds on much more than just age. It is time we choose to stand up for ourselves instead of worrying about ‘what people will say’ Choose what is right, your happiness and what is best for us in a relationship.

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To take the pressure off, Shahzeen Shivdasani, Bumble’s relationship expert, answers some of the age-gap relationship concerns:

the balance of power is upset

The age-difference relationship could possibly be accompanied by a wealth difference. It’s important to set boundaries on finances in the beginning and what you both need in order to feel empowered. Communicate openly about shared finances, money management, budgeting, and even your lifestyle to figure out what works best for both of you!

Our future goals and priorities may change over time

Both of you may have pressing questions about the future and perhaps different priorities in life. Discuss this early in the relationship to find a balanced approach to a relationship that works for both of you.

Can intimacy be a big issue?

If your emotional and physical intimacy needs differ, communicate openly, listen without judgment, and find a middle ground. Find interests that you both enjoy, make plans, and most importantly, stick to them.